There are always the exceptions to the rule, however, for the majority of people, I have found that certain things hold true. In no particular order:
8. Looking or having a serious relationship in college spells D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R most of the time.
7. If you find yourself trying to change or "better" the person you are with, chances are, you're with the wrong person.
6. Physical chemistry is just as important as intellectual, spiritual and emotional chemistry with your partner. And they're all related.
5. It's 100% normal to find other men/women attractive even if you are in a healthy relationship. It's acting on it that's the problem.
4. You shouldn't expect one person to fulfill ALL your needs. That's what friends and family are for.
3. It's important to have a life outside of being "so and so"'s girlfriend/boyfriend.
2. Don't sell yourself short. The person you're with should have the main qualities you look for in a partner- don't settle for less, because you'll only end up doing both yourself and your partner an injustice.
1. Open yourself up to different types of people and new experiences. Assuming they have your core non-negotiables, date a little outside of your comfort zone. Worst case scenario: you'll have a good story to tell, best case, you may end up finding someone special.
From me to you...
Talk to ya later,
GenXYZ Junior
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